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		<title>By: Filler at Faux Real</title>
		<link>http://fauxrealtho.com/2006/12/28/non-sappy-definitely-not-smooshy-but-heteronormative-stuff/#comment-33741</link>
		<dc:creator>Filler at Faux Real</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Apr 2007 01:37:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] 8. convincing Chef to do away with Mozilla-Pujols (which he is pitifully attached to) and begin to call himself Oflauren, which is definitely more snappy. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] 8. convincing Chef to do away with Mozilla-Pujols (which he is pitifully attached to) and begin to call himself Oflauren, which is definitely more snappy. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Kyso K</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kyso K</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Dec 2006 12:24:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;As a some-time wedding photographer, there is nothing more annoying and stupid than a pet being the ringbearer.&lt;/i&gt;

Sounds like game on to me.

My cousin nearly purchased a dress that was a gown for the ceremony, and tore away to a miniskirt for the party.  I think you can make that work.

And my mom suggests historic Mansfield prison in Ohio for a nice reception.  Well, she suggests it for me, but I'm not having a wedding any time in the next decade or so so you can totally take it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>As a some-time wedding photographer, there is nothing more annoying and stupid than a pet being the ringbearer.</i></p>
<p>Sounds like game on to me.</p>
<p>My cousin nearly purchased a dress that was a gown for the ceremony, and tore away to a miniskirt for the party.  I think you can make that work.</p>
<p>And my mom suggests historic Mansfield prison in Ohio for a nice reception.  Well, she suggests it for me, but I&#8217;m not having a wedding any time in the next decade or so so you can totally take it.</p>
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		<title>By: foresmac</title>
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		<dc:creator>foresmac</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Dec 2006 06:51:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As a some-time wedding photographer, there is nothing more annoying and stupid than a pet being the ringbearer.

I agree with Jill, let someone else live blog it. But, A live webcast might be cool.

Also, the honeymoon, I can't wait for the YouTube pr0n. Webcam two honkeys=hott, hott, hott. "Lauren and Chef Gone Wild!" I'd buy &lt;em&gt;that&lt;/em&gt; for a dollar!

But, seriously, I can't wait to take the photos. Of the &lt;em&gt;wedding&lt;/em&gt;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a some-time wedding photographer, there is nothing more annoying and stupid than a pet being the ringbearer.</p>
<p>I agree with Jill, let someone else live blog it. But, A live webcast might be cool.</p>
<p>Also, the honeymoon, I can&#8217;t wait for the YouTube pr0n. Webcam two honkeys=hott, hott, hott. &#8220;Lauren and Chef Gone Wild!&#8221; I&#8217;d buy <em>that</em> for a dollar!</p>
<p>But, seriously, I can&#8217;t wait to take the photos. Of the <em>wedding</em>.</p>
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		<title>By: Because It Needs To Be Said at Faux Real Tho!</title>
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		<dc:creator>Because It Needs To Be Said at Faux Real Tho!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Dec 2006 05:14:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Mom, I am not serious about any of this. Except for Mozilla-Pujoles. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Mom, I am not serious about any of this. Except for Mozilla-Pujoles. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Lauren</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lauren</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Dec 2006 02:44:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>No way, I'm training Doug for the leash.  He's so cooperative and stuff.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No way, I&#8217;m training Doug for the leash.  He&#8217;s so cooperative and stuff.</p>
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		<title>By: Ron O</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ron O</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Dec 2006 02:43:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>1.  Geeky and I love a vicarious celebration.

2.  Pictures and a write up when you get back would be nice.

3.  Now's a good time to do it.

4.  Nah.  There's other opportunities to make your enemies uncomfortable.

5.  I've seen similar with people's dogs and I'd vote no on this one.  Ethan should be part of it, though, assuming that is OK with him.

My advice is:
1. Talk through your priorities and budget, then work from the top down.  We went (roughly): good food, good live band, inclusive guest list, beautiful location, seasonal flowers, real china, etc. 

2.  Delegate.  Especially on the day, you should be able to enjoy yourself and let other people handle stuff.  Pick a reliable maid of honor.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1.  Geeky and I love a vicarious celebration.</p>
<p>2.  Pictures and a write up when you get back would be nice.</p>
<p>3.  Now&#8217;s a good time to do it.</p>
<p>4.  Nah.  There&#8217;s other opportunities to make your enemies uncomfortable.</p>
<p>5.  I&#8217;ve seen similar with people&#8217;s dogs and I&#8217;d vote no on this one.  Ethan should be part of it, though, assuming that is OK with him.</p>
<p>My advice is:<br />
1. Talk through your priorities and budget, then work from the top down.  We went (roughly): good food, good live band, inclusive guest list, beautiful location, seasonal flowers, real china, etc. </p>
<p>2.  Delegate.  Especially on the day, you should be able to enjoy yourself and let other people handle stuff.  Pick a reliable maid of honor.</p>
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		<title>By: Anne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Dec 2006 07:46:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Seriously.  Why no plus sign?!</description>
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		<title>By: Anne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Dec 2006 07:44:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>#6 -- No, I will never stop haunting you for this.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>#6 &#8212; No, I will never stop haunting you for this.</p>
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		<title>By: Anne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Dec 2006 07:43:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>#1 -- Totally geeky, but awesome for documenting.

#2 -- See #1 above, sans sex stuff.

#3 -- I'm with Jill on #3; otherwise, I'm all for the hyphenating -- or what's even better: retaining some semblance of your personhood and keeping your own last names.  But, you are getting &lt;a href="http://dwardmac.pitzer.edu/Anarchist_Archives/goldman/aando/marriageandlove.html" title="Wisdom from Emma Goldman" rel="nofollow"&gt;married&lt;/a&gt;, after all.

#4 -- You're joking, right?  Why be mean?

#5 -- E Doug4Life</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>#1 &#8212; Totally geeky, but awesome for documenting.</p>
<p>#2 &#8212; See #1 above, sans sex stuff.</p>
<p>#3 &#8212; I&#8217;m with Jill on #3; otherwise, I&#8217;m all for the hyphenating &#8212; or what&#8217;s even better: retaining some semblance of your personhood and keeping your own last names.  But, you are getting <a href="http://dwardmac.pitzer.edu/Anarchist_Archives/goldman/aando/marriageandlove.html" title="Wisdom from Emma Goldman" rel="nofollow">married</a>, after all.</p>
<p>#4 &#8212; You&#8217;re joking, right?  Why be mean?</p>
<p>#5 &#8212; E Doug4Life</p>
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		<title>By: Kristjan Wager</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kristjan Wager</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Dec 2006 07:37:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Liveblogging from the honeymoon might not have been done before, but I am pretty sure webcamming it has been done (not that &lt;i&gt;that&lt;/i&gt; should stop you, if you feel like it).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Liveblogging from the honeymoon might not have been done before, but I am pretty sure webcamming it has been done (not that <i>that</i> should stop you, if you feel like it).</p>
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